Dear family, friends and I dunno who the fuck you are to me,
STOP MAKING IT BETTER!
Sometimes you are going through a hard time and you feel so messed up and like a loser. With all due respect, I appreciate family and friends who try to cheer me up. I totally appreciate it but could you just stay the hell away from me? Could I just go through my emotions in peace? Could I just stay in my sweatpants for another day? Could I just cry my eyes out while eating pizza (that’s for you guys in Lavington) sisi wengine ng’ang’ana na ngumu. This business of telling me “everything will be alright, rise and shine, don’t cry, God has a reason, be positive” is like mixing pumpkins and porridge and serving it cold. Yuck!
I am not saying that you now wallow in your emotions the whole year. I am saying sometimes you got to embrace hard times the way they are, drown a little bit then shake it off and give it that Idris Elba look and Kipchoge your way out. I am not a psychiatrist or a therapist but the magic in doing this is you allow yourself to be a human that goes through highs and lows. Guys, if talking sense was a person it would be me, ey?
By the way I am so done with this ‘be positive’ nonsense. Mtu amekufa unaskia watu wakisema ati ‘we loved you but God loved you more’. Imeandikwa wapi kwa Bible because last time I checked God loves us all equally. Mimi msinipee jealousy issues tafadhali. He is my Father and He loves me too. When you fail an exam unaskia ati there’s always a next time. My friend, do you know that exam could have been the difference between going to Harvard to study Anthropology or going to Wakimani Institute of I don’t even know what? Eh? You have just graduated with a first class honours and you have tarmacked till Lokichogio alafu kamtu kanakuambia don’t worry the right opportunity will come. Kwani zinakuja na Migunamiguna? Ati don’t worry? Mimi ni Woria I can’t evade worrying. Personally, if you see me crying just let me be because first of all it’s my talent and the Bible says if you hide your talent it will be taken away. Secondly, siko Machakos niko Nairobi na kuna maji mingi kwa hivyo wacha nilie hadi nitoe tomato sauce.
HAHA…It’s a thing you know?
Like!! Thank you for publishing this awesome article.
People are different and react differently to situations. I know there are people who prefer to have someone to help them go through their emotions. That is completely okay because people eventually help you to get better. The thing is, those people also need to understand the need to give you time to go through your emotions. After all is said and done , try and have a positive outlook because life is a balance.
“.. Give it that Idris Elba look and Kipchoge your way.. “🔥🔥 Eish love that
I think it’s all just misinterpreted. Toxic masculinity isn’t really a thing. It’s just masculinity. It’s picked up, it’s learnt, it’s in DNA and it’s stuck.
The thing about masculinity is the inability to accept help or show desperation. So masculinity is not gonna stop, it’s wired. What can be done maybe is to create awareness of like “you know what, I get it, your a man man and you can’t show weakness, but hey, let’s solve the problem coz your a human, a person, and you being helped won’t make you any less of a man. The inability to accept assistance is the toxic part, not masculinity
Say it louder for the people at the back to hear! ‘The inability to accept assistance is the toxic part, not masculinity!”
Repeat this to yourself and internalize because it’s such a powerful statement.
na tusker cider!
it’s as if there’s somewhere it’s been written it’s for girls only ama if you drink you will have less balls.😑
Drink whatever you want. After all the money is yours, ey?
Kwanza men with toxicity..,.slow down😟😟😔😔
This is a whole topic on itself! Seriously, why can’t men cry or show emotion? Share with us the toxic stuff you guys go through.
We just might write on it and create awareness.
Bana ati siwezi kunywa fanta na guarana😂😂😭😭
Hio ya Fanta nayo nimefeel ati blackcurrant ni ya wamama!!!hii kitu lazima iishe
Kama soda ni tamu ni tamu
Orange ndio huwainachoma picha
Huku ni moto🥺🥺
fire! mwaki! moto! kosa ucheke.😂😂
Mahn …i wish everyone saw this ….this damn me rn …anyhos crying is my talent🤗😂 and imma cry adi niende ocha machakos☻
It gets better! But it is up to you to decide when it does!
Loooolll!! Umeanza na hasira lakini😁😴😂
But yes I agree go through emotions but dont stay therreee!!!!⚡😋
Hurting is a growth process ,,, trying to sugarcoat when reality is biting at the same time that’s porridge and pumpkin being served 🙄🙄😂you sure do feel me😀😀
No more sugarcoating! We dont like sugar anymore only pepper and chilli.😂
Anyway, I get what you are saying some times we just need silence but some people just be talking trying to make things better.
We should literally fly these guys to Ibiza. They need more than one pill
The lines that made me crack up 😂
“Could I just cry my eyes out while eating pizza (that’s for you guys in Lavington) sisi wengine ng’ang’ana na ngumu.”
“Kwani zinakuja na Migunamiguna?”
“Mimi ni Woria I can’t evade worrying”
“siko Machakos niko Nairobi na kuna maji mingi kwa hivyo wacha nilie hadi nitoe tomato sauce.”
😂😂😂😂 Where did you get such?
It’s just those jokes you make up in your sleep and you think they are only funny to you but when you tell your friends they start laughing…and you be like I’m a commedian! school for who?😂😂😂
That is hilariously well written 🤣👏🏾
Who hurt you mrembo…eeei
Amazing work 👍
…mimi ni woria i cant stop worrying….interesting piece of work done here💥💥
Be feeling……mmmmh word…..
‘…..give it that Idris Elba look and kipchoge your way out’ ✌
Girl, you great❤
that should probably be a school’s motto 😂😂
Nice read you got there giiiirl 😍😍💯
Thankyou so much! Keep sharing!
Finally someone said it , it’s not all sunshine and rainbows . But you gotta do what you gotta do
what you do is all that counts period.
Guys, I appreciate your comments and love! Sososo grateful. Share with us on other “Be positive nonsense” that you really hate.
well well well
saa zingine inakuwanga tu hormones 🌚
buuuut si it’ll be better😂😂😂
Where is the lie?
Eeyyy siz😅….come slow..umetuchapa na reality sana ..we are not ready😅
You better be ready to hear the unconventional truth! Andisi and I are preaching to the ends of the earth hadi Juja market.😂😂
Eeyyy siz😅….come slow..umetuchapa na reality sana ..we are not ready😅
Uji and pumpkin cold??? Ewwww
But I really hate it when people say “You Loved them but God loves them more”. Such nonsense!!!!
It’s just heavenly to know I am not the only one who thinks it’s upright non-sensical to say that!Like what do you mean bro?😑😂
Ati opportunity inakuja na Migunamiguna 😂😂😂😂😂
Migunamiguna needs to come, Bana!
“Mimi ni woria I can’t evade worrying” 😂😂⚡
On that note..I also like flowing as things come..if it hurts it hurts si ati nini ama nini..if it makes me happy it makes me happy…it doesn’t matter if it makes you happy because we’re all different..and deal with issues differently.
It’s your life boo, react the way you feel is right and just learn from your experience. Ain’t nobody got time for ‘rise and shine’.😂
I dont like reading motivational books because they are always telling me who I should be , how I should act…like just let me live my life already! ugh!🙄😂
You have literally spoken my heart out!😊